No, I'm afraid there's no help for men who will do the stupidest things when infatuated. I just read that this is an unfortunate evolutionary side effect. In Simply Irresistible By Dr Raj Persaud, it says that:

"However, a surprising result was that it's not just that certain shared areas of the brain are reliably activated in both romantic and maternal love, but also that particular locations are deactivated. And it's the deactivation which is perhaps most revealing about love. Among other areas, part of the pre-frontal cortex - the bit of the brain towards the front of the head - seem to get switched off when we are in love and when we love our children, as do areas linked with experience of negative emotions as well as planning. These deactivated parts of the brain form a network that is implicated in the assessment of trustworthiness of others, and basically, critical social assessment. In other words, strong emotional ties to another person not only inhibit negative emotion but also affect the brain networks involved in making social judgments about that person."

Or basically, men get stupid. Too wordy? Ok, here's the graphical representation:
 
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